Sunday, February 12, 2017

Sometimes Things ARE Crappy

I am an optimist and believe that a positive attitude is a choice and makes a huge difference. 
Our lives are full of blessings- we just have to look and acknowledge them. 
I try to speak kindly and positively to those around me 
and think that most of the time I am successful. 

But sometimes y'all, things are just crappy. 
Like seriously crappy. 
Crappy crappy.

A marriage that falls apart and a spouse leaves?  Crappy. 
A cancer diagnosis? Crappy. 
The loss of a job or home? Crappy.
A relationship broken beyond repair? Crappy. 
Someone you love with an addiction they don't see and won't get help for? Crappy. 
The death of someone you love? Crappy. 

God did not say that we would be without trouble in this world- in fact he said the opposite. 
In John 16:33 he says....
I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. 



He didn't say MAY.
He said WILL.  
We live in a sinful, fallen world and bad things can and will happen. 

And it's funny but I've noticed lately that 
some people do NOT like you admitting that things are crappy. 

I think there are times when we need friends to remind us of the goodness of the Lord,
of the blessings we do have, and point us to the light found only in Him.

But sometimes, I think we need someone to sit beside us
and not try to fix anything or cheer us up,
but say...."You are right. That stinks."
To validate that it's okay to admit that things are crappy.

Now I don't mean to camp out there and wallow in that but to
briefly acknowledge the stinkiness of the situation.

As a super positive person I've found recently that people often don't
 like it when I say something stinks.
When things are crappy my favorite saying is Crap on a Cracker.
I love it so much that I had my sweet friend Kathryn
(of the fabulous Feathered Nest Boutique)
 make me a shirt that said Crap on a Cracker. 

I was so excited about this shirt because it made me laugh and I knew it would
be absolutely perfect to wear to MD Anderson when I went for surgery recently.

I loved it even more when my sweet friends Jamee and Betty ordered one too
and wore it when they came to MDA that day to wait with my 
daddy and husband while I was in surgery. 

And y'all it was perfect.
When I wanted to cry- it made me laugh.

I got some flack though when I posted a pic of the shirt. 
Several people said it wasn't a very nice statement 
and they were shocked and appalled that I would wear such a shirt.
But y'all...sometimes things ARE crappy. 

And I pray that when something is crappy for someone in my life-
that I'm able to sit and hold their hands-
like these (and other) sweet friends did for me-
and say....It is crappy and I'm sorry. 





10 comments :

  1. I agree. Sometimes it just is crappy and that needs to be acknowledged before you can move on. Cute shirt.

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  2. Ummmm where CAN I get a shirt like that???? LOVE IT! You are so right girl!!!!!

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    1. https://www.etsy.com/listing/492752822/crap-on-a-cracker-raglan-graphic-shirt?ref=shop_home

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  3. I agree with you!!!! life can be crappy.... It is truth, it is a fact, and we know, we have to life through it. I am glad and thankful you have a shirt that says crap on a cracker. I am glad it makes you laugh. I am sorry people said that was ugly. We are free, Know the truth and the truth sets you free which is Jesus Christ. He knows we have crappy times days and circumstances. He holds our hands even when the shirt is worn!!!!

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  4. Shannon, dear, precious honest Sister in Christ. Thank you soooo much for your honesty. I agreed with every word. Too many people, including pastors have sold us a "Happy Gospel", trying to deceive people into believing that once we're saved, everything will magically fall into place perfectly. If it doesn't, then folks try to get you to find out what sin in your life caused a tragedy to happen. You were exactly right to point us to what Jesus said about there being tribulation in this old sinful, fallen world. That's why Jesus came to earth!! I like to say, "This ain't heaven!" Why do you think we'll be so glad to get to heaven? Cause crappy stuff happens here on earth. Jesus never lied to us. But, He did say that once we've recognized the crappiness, we can "Be of good cheer, because He has over come the world". Praise the Lord, He has provided for joy in the midst of tears, pain and sorrow. He told us that He was sending the Comforter, the Holy Spirit. Girl, do I like to wrap myself up in that big Holy Spirit comfort, just like a big old comforter!! When the world & yes, even the Church tries to deceive me about things, well, I just go to the Word & learn the truth about things. That's what you've done, bless your heart. We're praying for health, healing, & comfort for you. God loves you so much & you are a blessing. Through crappy times and good times.

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  5. This is so very true and love your honesty and heart that sometimes things are not perfect, and thanks OK.

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  6. I enjoyed this post because it is true. We are human with emotions. Life happens and sometimes we just need someone to agree with us. Then we can move forward, fueled and filled with faith, we move on.

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  7. Shannon,
    I hope your surgery went well and you are healing.
    Yes, life can be a struggle and that struggle can be crappy. Great job being honest and nice about it all a the same time.

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  8. Shannon,
    I hope your surgery went well and you are healing.
    Yes, life can be a struggle and that struggle can be crappy. Great job being honest and nice about it all a the same time.

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