Here are just a few:
- It is painful to watch people find out their loved one is going to die. Truly heartbreaking. And I've seen it 4 times in the last day. Heartbreaking.
- I am blessed to have such sweet friends. Truly blessed.
- God works in mysterious and amazing ways. He is truly awesome.
- Hospital waiting rooms become like families after dark. You share snacks, books, blankets- everything- with people you just met.
- The chairs in CCU are NOT meant for sleeping. AT ALL. Especially if you have a herniated disc.
- You have no secrets in the waiting room. You can hear every phone conversation and conversation with a doctor that goes on.
- People handle grief and pain differently. Some laugh, some cry, some are silent, some are LOUD, some yell, some curse. There is no right way.
- As much as I hate that I am here, I am thankful that I've been here to pray for so many hurting, devastated families.

I have been on both sides: as the caregiver giving bad news and the family member receiving it.
ReplyDeleteIt isn't easy. :(
I am VERY glad your dad is on his way to recovery!
ReplyDeleteI so wish I could be there with you. I love you. And I've been praying, praying, praying for you both.
ReplyDeleteProbably the primary reason I couldn't work in health care. While there is so much good that comes of it, I would probably take home too much of the sad.
ReplyDeleteGlad your dad is doing well!
Chris
Good list of thoughts!
ReplyDeleteHope your dad is up and out soon!!!
As much as you have been there for your dad, you were meant to be there for others! You are such a blessing to so many. Take care and know that my prayers are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteIt is a blessing that you are there for both your dad and for the others there. you are a blessing to many. Hope your dad is back to himself really soon!
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