Sunday, January 3, 2010

A Best Friend

What defines a best friend?

What are the requirements to be a good best friend?

How many hours a week does it entail?

Stupid questions that have no answers.

A best friend is not defined by how many times they talk on the phone,
or how many hours they hang out together.

It is not defined by how many sleepovers they gossip at,
or how many inside jokes they have.

There are no requirements or laws that state that
a good best friend must hang out with them every weekend,
or tell each other every little detail.

A best friend is a matter of opinion.
It is the person who has been there for you through everything,
not just through the fun things, or the little things.

It is the person that you call when you are at your absolute worst,
it is the person who saves you when
you didn’t even notice that you needed saving,
mostly it is the person who accepts you for who you are,
and the person that you are becoming.